Dating Philosophy

What everyone ultimately desires in a relationship is to be accepted and loved for who they truly are.

Asian American men have been sent messages their whole life about how to act, how to dress, how they should behave, how they should talk, what it means to be a man, and all the ways they don’t fit the bill. Dating coaching with me is a unique coaching experience because I don’t tell my clients who they should be or what they should do. Traditional dating coaching methods such as learning how to flirt, how to look confident, and how to talk with women seems, on the surface, like a great way to boost your dating life. And it may, for a while. But regardless of how many women you can convince to go on dates with you, have sex with, or even get into a relationship with, if you haven’t done the transformative work of:

  • knowing yourself
  • knowing what you want out of a relationship
  • knowing what kind of woman is good for you
  • understanding your relationship patterns
  • gaining genuine confidence
  • discovering your unique sex appeal and
  • learning to be comfortable in your own skin

you are going to end up in the same cycles of unhealthy, unsustainable relationships.

As a licensed psychotherapist, I bring depth and radical transformation to dating coaching in a way that is fast paced, challenging, and results driven. After working with me, you will feel different, look different, and relate differently. Not because I teach you how to feign confidence from the outside, but because you are already sexy just the way you are, and I will help you discover how.

If you don’t believe me, just think about all of the people you know with significant others who, honestly, aren’t conventionally attractive.  The truth is, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Deep, sustainable attraction happens when people feel a connection, are comfortable, but still curious. Through my 16-week program, you will learn to elicit all three of these feelings in others around you by unleashing your inner sex appeal and gaining genuine confidence.

At the end of the day, what everyone truly desires in a relationship whether male or female, gay or straight, Asian, white, black, or brown is to be able to come home after a long day of hard work, let down their guard, and be accepted and loved for who they truly are. My ultimate goal is to teach you how to be a person who loves and accepts who you are so that you can do this for yourself, for the woman of your dreams, and can find an amazing woman who can do the same for you.

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